so my MIL might actually be dying...

Serena and I are trying to figure out logistics to get upstate hopefully Tuesday? if I have to call out of work Thursday I will...call out of work Thursday and even Friday because this is literally a family emergency. like. her surgical wound isn't really healing, she's in a fuckton of pain that meds apparently aren't working on, she has some kind of infection and circulation in her left leg is so shite that she'll "more than likely need that one amputated" (doctor's words) so she would end up becoming a double amputee

oh and on top of all of this and her failing mental health, she has COVID again for the FOURTH TIME

things have gone from bad to worse. the doctor also said that things are at the "life threatening" stage. like she could very well die from all of this so. yeah. that is...that is the state of things.
all of this happened in...less than a month.